Last week I had the pleasure of being in one of the most beautiful weddings ever- my friends Bluebird and Dylan tied the knot (or, more accurately, stomped on the glasses) in a magical ceremony held on Lughnasadh. The moon was full, spirits were high, and love was everywhere!
Take note: this blog post is going to have a LOT of pictures of dresses! Not only did the bride make her own wedding dress-- inspired by the elaborate bridal dress worn by Isabella, Queen of Spain, incorporating the skirt from her mother's wedding dress, which was handmade in Mexico in 1960 by her great-aunts-- but she made each and every one of the eight bridesmaids dresses. She even hand-dyed the silk for the dresses. Yes, she did this AND planned a wedding- you read that right. She's a professional costumier, and she wanted each of us to have our Dream Dress!
Here we are, hurrying quickly around the edge of the wedding, hiding the bride, as we make our way to the other side of the pond:
The groom and his groomsmen (and groomslady) are all painted in a dye handmade from the sacred herb Wode, and wearing head wreaths made from symbolic trees and plants.
On the other side of the pond, we board the raft and are pulled slowly across, gradually parting to reveal the bride, as we sing a traditional round:
Rose, rose, rose red
Will I ever see thee wed?
I will marry at my will, sire
At my will
The groom, dressed in a cloak of deerskin which he made and tanned himself, painted in sacred runes, awaits the arrival of his bride:
We arrive!
The bridesmaids line up on shore, and watch the ceremony, which takes place on the raft.
The four elements are invoked, including air, here symbolized by a beautiful and breathy song played on the flute:
When it comes time for Dylan to say his vows, he is handed his hand-carved harp and sings the vows to her. There is not a dry eye in the house. I actually thought Bluebird might faint from joy!
"Can you believe how lucky I am?!?!?"
Bluebird and Dylan were so utterly, profoundly sincere in their declarations of love.
Kissing in the flowered wreath!
Here is the bride and groom with their families- Dylan's mom came all the way from Michigan, which made him so happy. That's Bluebird's dad, and her two gorgeous daughters:
All the bridesmaids, and the flower girls:
Lady's man:
(What did I say about those dresses?!?!?)
The first dance, with Bluebird and her Dad:
The groom cuts in:
The song is "Unchained Melody"- sigh!
Aren't they lovely?
I haven't even talked about my dress, but I am guessing you've noticed it by now- it was extraordinary! When Bluebird asked me what my Dream Dress was, I had to go with my first impulse- the era of Marie Antoinette. This dress was done in authentic 1700s style, with a lace-up back and pocket hoops in the skirt and the whole she-bang. The colors, of course, were my own choosing- I love hot pink and green and gold so much it HURTS! And yes, I really did dye my hair to match. Here I am, with some of the mead that- get ready- the bride and groom made for the wedding. (Yes, they even made their own alcohol!)
(those are Hops in my hair, for you plant spotters out there!)
With my Sugatroll (why oh why did no one get a photo of his amazing purple and white vintage dress shoes? They matched the top perfectly!):
Dylan totally photo-bombs us:
My stomacher was hand-embroidered by Bluebird. It took her a month of stitching every evening.
Me and Leonna Sapphire! In sapphire blue, of course.
Swirly!
This is my favorite photo of myself- I sure do love a good door!
Hanging with friends:
There was some speechifying (after the mead, of course):
And of course we all get by with a little help from our friends, especially in fancy 18th century dresses- Lucia is loosening my corseted back. How did those ladies do it? I'm a wimp!
Later on there was a live band (Sun Hop Fat) playing 60s Ethiopian psyche/funk, canoeing and swimming by moonlight, and lots and lots of dancing and laughing. But you'll just have to imagine that part!
I hope you have been inspired and delighted by these fun photos- even if you don't know Dylan and Bluebird, I'm sure that you can get a sense of their amazing spirits! Here's to life and love and creativity and community and every color of the 'bow!
Bluebird designs wedding dresses, bridesmaid dresses, historical costumes, corsets, and even Tardis dresses for Dr. Who fans on her Etsy site! You can get in touch with her there regarding special commissions.
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